Many of my clients over the past week expressed confusion in such dichotomy: not wishing for our current circumstance… while admitting they had longed for it. Potentially our answer is, “yes, &…” 

I, for one, am a firm believer that when we follow what brings us joy & love & freedom - we foster others’ ability to do the same. On the contrary: if you force yourself to suffer & blame & dim your light - right now, especially - there would be one less hero in a story that needs you most.

I take away a little bit of the New Year spectacle to diminish some of its weight - to return that weight where it belongs: to you. & if that already feels heavy, please know I am with you - ready to support as well. You are capable of anything you desire. & you are also still you - even though the year has turned over. Embrace YOU as you walk into just another new year. 

Dear reader, where did you get the idea it had to be a certain way? When did you decide what was “right,” what you “should” do, what’s not allowed? What if you are making it harder than it needs to be? What if you simply allowed yourself to do what feels good? What does that look like for you?