It’s easy to say, “stop people pleasing and trust yourself” - but how do you put that life coach advice into practice? Stay aligned with what YOU value using today’s psychology lesson.
As a life coach who has supported hundreds of clients to make decisions quicker and easier using positive psychology for confident decisions, one of the most common hurdles I see when it comes to “finding your purpose” and feeling confident in your life direction is people pleasing.
This comes from a well-intentioned place; many of my clients (and you, most likely) value relationships and caring for your community.
You are also smart, and take pride in doing your research, asking for support, and paying attention to the wisdom passed on to you by others who have experienced success in their life.
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Value-aligned living isn’t just about prioritizing ONE value, however (in this case: relationships); value-aligned living is about learning how to make authentic decisions that represent ALL of your unique values, desires, dreams, and circumstances.
Today’s short motivational video encourages you to stop people pleasing and live life for you so you can learn how to trust yourself to make decisions.
As you practice how to stop living someone else’s life, you will learn there is a time when to stop asking advice. And as you practice this distinction to go IN rather than continue to seek out, self-doubt with decisions will be a thing of the past (or, at least, far less inhibitive of you experiencing your most fulfilling life).
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Hello, there! My name is Marin Laukka. As a coach, author, & speaker, I empower you to break free from false expectations & limiting beliefs about what “should” be so you can own your potential, unapologetically make your positive impact, & experience true fulfillment.
I have a Master’s degree in Positive Developmental Psychology & certifications in life coaching & yoga. Today, I am grateful to experience my dream career & life - which includes dancing & Aatto, my expansive relationship & a thriving business. YOU are capable of achieving authentic success, too, & it is my honor to be your guide.
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